How to date a Star

Relationship Hack

Tell them constantly how amazing and beautiful they are. Also bring them gifts, even small things to show you were thinking about them.  They love gifts.

What makes them tick...

They value:

•Beautiful things

•Looking their best

•Nice, quality things in their home and especially in their closet.

•Being considerate and aware of others

•Being listened to and validated.

•Attention

•Being seen

•Animals like small dogs

•Creativity and being artistic

•Music and quality time with loved ones

What to do...

•Tell them how amazing they are.

•Give them space and time to make sure they feel beautiful, dressed up and ready to face the world.

•Notice them and give them attention and time. They hate being alone or feeling abandoned.

•Pay attention and listen to what they say, think and feel.

•Understand when they move slow, have trouble in the mornings getting going, or take too long. This is just how they are wired and it’s probably not going to change.

•Let them sleep in. They need their beauty sleep.

•Moodiness happens. On a bad day just give them some space.

•They appreciate dates that are high class. Wine and dine a Star and take them somewhere they get to dress up for.

•Accept them as they are.

What not to do...

•Don’t insist on being right all the time, If you have ego and always insist on seeing your way as right, this will turn them off.

•Don’t be critical and judgmental of them. They need lots of verbal validation.

•Don’t hurry them or expect them to be on time or early.

•Don’t expect a quiet church mouse. Stars like to be seen and heard.

•Don’t have super long fights or conversations. Stars are short communicators and they can only handle conflict in short doses.

•Don’t be overly critical or talk down to them. Don’t treat them like a child or as less important than you.

•Don’t take moodiness on a bad day personally. Give them time and space to rest and get themselves back on line.

•Don’t insult or hurt them or their loved ones or the mama bear will come out. An angry star can be a force to be reckoned with.

•Leave them out or make them feel unwanted or abandoned.

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