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Relationship System
12 Shapes.
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An Influencer
Values People/Relationships
Fears Loss and Loss of Control

A nurturer
Values People/Relationships
Fears Failure and Abandonment



A connector
Values People/Relationships
Fears Failure and Rejection
A Perfectionist
Values Tasks/Order
Fears Loss and Loss of Control
A Giver
Values Tasks/Service
Fears Failure and Abandonment

A producer
Values Tasks.Mission
Fears Failure/Rejection

A Winner
Values Things/Achievements
Fears Loss and Loss of Control

A Luminary
Values Things/Impact
Fears Failure and Abandonment

An Inventor
Values Things/Mission
Fears Loss and Failure

A Teacher
Values Ideas/Morals
Fears Loss and Loss of Control

A Researcher
Values Ideas/Knowledge
Fears Failure and Rejection

An advocate
Values Ideas/Mission
Fears Loss and Failure
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